Forgetful a.k.a Nyanyuk

I'm soooo forgetful...I do not know how else to do nak elak things dari terlupa..not all things I lupa though..especially the negative one I mmg tak forgetful at all in fact
kalau bab2 orang cakap "I can forgive but will not forget"..yg ni memang laaa..dont worry I tak lupa.. sigh:)

Ini yg I lupa mostly benda2 yg sometimes can be major..contohnya; last year I was going to Bali, my flight supposed to be in the morning,I told my husband it's in the afternoon, I didnt even bother to check the tickets..until around 3pm when we were supposed leaving for airport (I blamed it on him as he asked me to do a lot of his travel arrangements that months..so I got mixed up plus my own trip with my girlfriends in 3 weeks times)

Unfortunately the hotel for that day was already prepaid and we happened to fly with AirAsia..so burnt laa tickets..nak tak nak kena beli new tickets sebab hotels for 5 nights I've paid way before,you can imagine buying airasia tickets last minutes..it's really cekik darah man!!..since no choice we had to fork out RM 1K++ due to my absent minded...nasib 1 way.

The latest one our movie tickets..to avoid long queue we bought the tickets in the morning for the night show..dah laa from my house to the shopping mall on weekend night memang jammed..only bila nak send the car for valet I realized my tickets were not with me..u can imagine a sudden rush of blood ke muka I..takut my husband marah..this is all sebab konon tukar handbags..one of my bad habbit I suka tukar2 handbags ikut baju konon and I frequently lupa barang...my husband was so pissed he told the valet guy not to park the car and we left..:(

Kalau kerja pulak..I selalu tertinggal laptop kat rumah..so my husband had to send to the office if he's not in town then I kena laa tebalkan muka pinjam from my department for any exra laptop dan suffer the consequences sebab files takde nak buat kerja:(

Tertinggal barang sana sini tu memang normal..tertinggal laptop kat restaurant laa..tertinggal handphone kat meeting room laa..endless ok?

I was adviced by my friends to take gingko..maybe I need that ..and they said things like this only happened to me:( like cronic cases gitu

Broken hearted - a cinderella story

When I first knew about this incident happening to my very dear friend, I cried...I cried sampai teresak2. I had to hide myself at a discussion corner in the office sebab malu nak balik to my workstation mata bengkak nangis.

Her life prior to this was like a cinderalla..she met a consultant from an international firm with a degree from an ivy league. Very good and established family background, very highly paid salary..basically everything about the guy was perfect...they soon decided to get married eventhough the inlaws didnt really like her as she's not in the same league..kata mereka but the guy fought and they finally got married.

The husband was very loving, they vacation to all sort of places following the husband whenever he went for conferences, they had kids ramai...sort of every year laa my friend ni conceived, then the last one born, they husband suggested her to stay at home to spend times with kids since kata dia tak boleh nak rely on the maid 100%. She quit and the husband bought her a luxury car nak senangkan dia hantar ambik anak from school.

Then slowly she realized the husband was getting cold towards her...it actually started during her last pregnancy, but since the husband was part of the management team for a well established company she thought it could be due to work stress.

Until...one day, her youngest sister suggested that the husband could be having an affair..and she think the other woman is her other sister, kira my friend punya adik yang used to stay with her during her internship.

For your info, my friend ni memang comel je orang nya, petite and soft spoken...The part yg I menangis tu..she told me when she confronted the husband..he lost his temper and beat her and slammed her on the floor, things he had never done to her all their married life...I tak tahu dari mana suddenly this monster emerged. I know them really well so when I got to know about this I just couldn't stop thinking..bila terfikir I menangis, malangnya nasib my cinderalla...dia bukan orang senang, before she met the husband her life memang susah, gaji dia mostly hantar kampung tampung adik2 sekolah termasuk lah adik yg ada affair dgn husband dia sekarang..so ingatkan bila dah kahwin this guy boleh lindungi dia..

Dia tak kerja..ask for divorce, the husband tak nak let go, ugut nak take away all the kids. At the same time nak keep the sister as his mistress.

The family can't do anything..they all hopeless..sama macam kami kawan2 tak mampu nak tolong..all we can do is to pray and hoping Allah will give her strength to go through this. She's just bertahan for the kids, sebab takut they all hidup susah if the husband stop all his financial aid..

Diet part 2

I have been missing my squash classes since early february, both my coach and I were busy, it's either dia ada tournament, or Bukit Jalil courts full sebab the "real" players were training for the tournaments or I was out of town on weekends, until yesterday baru I dapat attend the class, which means he has not received any feedback from me on my diet program:) (I was given his personal email to update him on my daily progress)

So yesterday once he saw me, "eeehhhhh..I think you lost weight!" apa lagi I pun melompat with joy laa..dah laa the day before my beautician yg I dah abondoned for 3 months commented the same..I guess the diet program works.

Then my coach was telling me about the new program he and the wife are planning to start. this is considered the second phase. The program is for 10 days. 5 days diet, 1 day break and continue again for 5 days. That doesnt sounds too bad isn't it??

The program is purely to detox your body, NO MEAT..any kind of animal's meat. But you can eat all sort of vegetables, fruits and soy products, like soya bean and tofu, you can also eat nuts such as pecan, almonds..he even suggested to take granola bar or power bar if in between meals I got hit with the hunger pangs but cannot be too many bars laa,..in moderate one bar and a mug of plain water to make the hunger go away. You can keep muching the apple in between meals

To start this programme for 5 days..susahnya nak mula..pagi2 lagi I dah "termakan" bread with peanut butter yg my maid prepared for my girls..hmm..scratching my head fikir bila nak start ni......I guess for me I would rather run for 20 KMs than letting go of my chicken, fish or my favorite Steak @chillis:(

TWINS

Twins..talking about twins, ramai yg wish nak twins sebab katanya, senang..sekali pregnant dah boleh dapat multiple. I had my fair share of raising twins (let me talk about raising twins another time, though)

Hari ni, I nak kongsi cerita about this incidents I had with 2 of my close girl friends, A is my close friend masa I kat boarding school dulu, B is my housemate masa I kat US during my university days. Kebetulan A and B are close friends, they were classmates masa sekolah rendah.

Mid 2008, I pegi outstation kat Penang so these 2 ladies came and see me kat airport while waiting for my flight back to KL, as usual talking about twins, they both so excited and cakap I cheated sebab I only had to conceive twice to have 3 kids, while they had to go through 3 pregnancies and wish if they too can have twins, like asking me, the tips etc (which I have none to share)..both were planning for their last one (the fourth child) and hoping to get twins.

Few months passed, one day I received a call from B asking about twins pregnancy!!!!!! she's having twins..we were all excited to hear the news..she delivered mid 2009, identical boys.

While A was still contemplating whether or not to conceive for her fourth child..then early this year finally she's ready and wanted to give a shot sebelum tutup kedai kata dia...so she finally got pregnant..guess what????? she's also having twins

I couldn't stop thinking pasal how coincident that both of them dapat twins..A is expected to give birth in October this year.

Sometimes I terfikir, possible tak masa we all berborak and berharap tu, pintu langit terbuka masa tu..so our wishes (doa) di makbulkan:)

I'm so happy for both of them

Diet ohh diet

I'm fat..

I was in denial initially..it's all started when I changed job and gradually I piled on kilos. I used to walk..a long walk daily to the office as I commuted via train..LRT..change train etc..but for new office, I traveled by car, so I cut down apporximately 2 KMs daily of back and forth. ..

I used to go to the gym 7 days a week, I stopped for years, even that doesnt make me FAT..until I join this new company..cutting down on walking really taking its toll on me

So when I realized I couldn't fit into my jeans I started panicking and looking for things to do to shed those extra kilos..I signed up swimming, I went for body combat classes, squash, signed up for gym..all didn't work...I lost hope:(

Until recently,my coach was looking for people to join his wife loosing kilos to fit into her cheongsam for Chinese New Year..I immediately signed in. I had to email him on daily basis of my food intake.

the rule is simple, the program is just one month. 3 days no carbo at all..not even sugar. 4th day you can eat a little bit of carbo in order for you to continue the next 3 days without carbo again, it goes on for 30 days. In the meantime, you need to do a simple exercise daily, brisk walking for 35 minutes. Just that..no bootcamps, no gym, no fancy exercise.

It works..it works for me..even I cheated quite a lot during the program, the days I had my coffee or bread, I'll not update my coach;) but it still works..I lost 2 kilos. Fantastic enough, I managed to get rid of my girdle..which is part of my attire for the last 6 months.

I still have 8 more kilos and still fat but at least I've made a progress:)

Office wear with silk scarf - taken from my site in polivore

Office wear by noe1310 featuring Diane von Furstenberg pants

Items in this set:
By Malene Birger Polani silk-chiffon shirt, $195
Diane von Furstenberg Tuxer tuxedo pants, $325
Juicy Couture - Andy (Neon Blue Patent/Blue Enamel/Gold Juicy..., $135
Paraty leather shoulder bag, $1,895
Lanvin Transport Bracelet in Royal Blue - Zoe, $245

My favorite item in this combination is the Chloe, Paraty handbag..it's a real beauty..I must say:)
I kind of like the accessories in this combination...this can be my personal style as I like chiffon blouse and wide leg pants.

weekend style - Not my own (taken from Polivore)

Casual weekend by noe1310 featuring Marc Jacobs bags

Please note, I do not own the items:)

This is the style I mixed and matched from Polivore site, I just found the site today and it's really fun to mix and match and it can be a good guide of how to style certain blouse or pants.