*sigh* well....I've just sent my Cambodian maid to my agent this afternoon...had enough of her drama!
Initially when she didnt understand the language..it's so much easier, I just need to give instruction..now after 1 year plus when she started to pick up the language then she's being difficult..Tak boleh nak tegur, she will locked herself in the room and refused to do work.
Last week she broke my blender, so I told her "Ho nas..sudah banyak barang saya pecah..kali ini saya rasa saya kena potong gaji kamu" she pulled face and ran into her room (I didnt even raise my voice ok?)...then after more than half an hour, I knocked her room and explained.."I should be the one who's crying..not you...I bayar gaji you.kena beli barang2 yg you pecah kan dan rosakkan.." then baru dia ok..so of course I was just threaten to cut her pay. She's a bit clumsy, barang kat dapur mmg countless laa yg dia pecah kan sampaikan every time I heard things pecah, i didnt bother to go and check so that I wont get mad.
but lately simple things, even when she had an argument with Allysha (my 5yr old gal) she will get into her room and refused to do the housework...
Yesterday..we were rushing getting ready to go to the airport sending my mom home, I went to her room to look for big paper bag..so I found one big paper bag full of rubbish..so I took out to empty the thing..I was shocked to find my make ups, my husband's stuff among those rubbish...of course I was mad..I was looking for my stuffs all around the house and she kept telling " tak tahu mem" all the time...and she has the gut to come ask me "mem..marah saya ke?" *sigh*
Then as soon as we came home yesterday evening..she came told me she wanted to go work with somebody else....so I told her..."kemas baju sekarang..saya hantar kamu!" so I called my agent in PJ and told her I'm sending Ho Nas...but she refused to come out from the room until this morning after I threaten to call the police if she refused to come out...such a drama I'm telling you..
So now she's with the agent, and there's no turning back for her.....I would rather maidless then living with such an attitude maid:(
It's not much of work for her, basically just to clean up the house and do my laundry, my kids are taken care by my in laws..in the morning I was the one who prepare my kids for school, shower them and all..they refused to be bathed by my maid all the time...even that she's not grateful..I left her in the house all day by herself...we dont even bother to send her to my in-laws to make sure she doesnt get unnecessary stress
ok..enough with my whining..sorry peeps just want to let it out of my chest.anyone of you who have survived without maid? I really dont know if I made the right decision:(
18 comments:
i think u made the right decision, some maid ni memang memeningkan kepala.. some of them pandai sangat till buat kita pening.. i hope, u ll get a better on asap. the agency ganti yang baru tak?
Lady : Thanks beb..I hope so too..but the agent definitely wont replace laa..since dah masuk 2nd yr, they only replace within the first 3 months..tapi normally maid ni mmg tak buat perangai kalau ada dlm probabation tu..I guess mmg dah kena warning dgn agent kot*sigh* so now kena start all over again the process:(
be it indonesian, philipines, cambodian kalau dah buat perangai mmg boleh bikin stress. sometimes yg baik pun boleh bertukar menjadi ala syaitonnnirajimm. mine skrg tgh mabuk cinta..sakit jiwa tengok melekat kat hp je...nasib baik la malam je kat rumah...pagi2 i sent her to my laundry shop ..keje rumah i buat sendiri. I just pray that she'll work until everything settle down ...at least another year.
Elok lah u return dia balik...buat sakit jiwa je simpan.
...i guess it's high time you made up your mind...
Hope you'll get a better maid.
Cheers
eee.. geramnya ade maid camni.. maid saya dulu pon macam2..
sometimes akak kene jadi garang dengan depe ni..
beb, i baru jek tulis entry psl my maid yg sentap ngan anak i. tetiba dia jadi emo la kan...
my maid pulak, asyik sakit jek... bosan asyik kena bawak gi klinik. macam2 hal- gastrik la, batuk la, selesema la, sakit gigi la...
pecah barang, hempas pintu tak yah crita la..
Next year, cukup 2 thn.. maybe it's time to let her go..
mommyCT : beb, my indonesian maid dulu pun ada yg mabuk cinta..hari2 kangen sama pacar..5 bulan je bertahan, sampai demam2 nangis nak balik jumpa pacar, katanya jumpa dlm bas masa nak pegi jakarta buat permit dtg kerja malaysia..so i sent her back, tahu2 balik pacar tu dah kawin.
hazeleyed : hopefully beb..i mmg takde luck when it comes to maid:(
IQWA : tu laa nak jadi garang mmg boleh tapi karang morale dia low kita jugak yg susah:(
flowerella : beb..sama laa dgn my maid..sakit nya start dari bulan ke 4, right after warranty habis laa kan..sakit kepala..sakit gigi..sakit badan mcm2 dah pegi dentist few times..last one dia menangis2 tak nak cabut gigi..rela simpan gigi rosak..tahan dgn pain killer...ikut kan my husband suruh hantar balik lama dah..tapi I fikir nak go through the process ambik new maid tu yg delay2..stress betul bila fikir
SM...i am maidless! not to say i really-really tak nak maid, siapa tak nak rehat bila balik kerja kan? tapi all those stories, bad experiences with maids, like yours also happen to me...so dari sakit kepala, i rather be maidless! it's tiring handling kids, housework, work, study tapi at least i am happy without melayan karenah diorg...yang kadang2 not make sense at all! yang mmg tak berbaloi dilayan coz at the end, diorg tak pandai pun nak appreciate. masa i ada maid pun, like yours, my kids still i hantar daycare...left her at home buat housework je...but still tak pandai nak bersyukur...and buat hal. I pulak tumpang 'luah perasaan' hehe..Hope you'll get better maid after this.
JeM : beb, actually u r one of the few people that I was thinking to write personally asking about tips how you manage ur day without maid:) with ur hectic schedule and 3 kids in tow..u did a great job beb! why dont u write about it sharing with us, esp those macam I yg baru maidless, i ni mmg spoilt..I wish i have the courage to be independent like u.
dont apolagize babe i dgr pun hangin apa ke hal majuk2 pg balik la lagi bagus - not so bad without maid u know cuma sedikit penat :)-
u make the right decision indeed - amek ja maid lain padan muka maid tu kalu dia tak learn any lesson tak tau lah apa dia ingat orang ada masa melayan dia
Erma : tu laa beb, rasanya now no turning back for her, my husband tak bagi i change my mind..siap suruh tinggal kat hostel agent and terus hantar pegi airport from there. fikir2 kesian pulak dia marayu2 nak balik rumah i.
dear,
macam2 la hal maid ni kan?..i tgk my BIL pon bnyk prob ngan maid dia...me, so far never have any maid..sjk anak kecik sampai skang..alhamdulillah..penat mmg xleh nak cakap but syukur coz my other half sgt memahami dan bnyk tolerate..kalu xlarat nak masak beli jer...xlarat nak basuh anta je dobi (which i never do that until now..) tp yg penting, anak pun bley belajar berdikari and bantu kerja umah even she's only 5yo now...and we are free in our own kingdom..:)
all the best to you!
workingmom : yes beb, thanks..u r right, now I have 2nd thought of taking a new maid, rasa mcm blh handle sbb my kids yg kecik pun dah 4 yrs, i mmg now send baju for laundry..and senang hati:)
I used to hv a problematic maid, lasted for 8 months, she met a guy and ran away from my house...horror...while I was at work and my baby was just 7 months old..thank god my mom was around in the house at that time with my baby. Now I have a new maid but she's old and okay lah so far.
Sometimes I think that having a maid can be troublesome if they give you problems n stress.
lil sharky : thank god ur mom is around, so far I have 1 runaway maid, that was when my twins were still babies, luckily my mom was around.
so far i think i will make do without a maid for now
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