Monday, August 9, 2010

Don't cry:(



I'm such a cry baby..at times, while watching heart-wrenching drama or movies I will be sobbing like a baby. That's why I dont like watching sad movies or drama with my kids and hubby as I have to control the emotion...


I can easily shed tears over sad story...last week I had dinner with a few friends, including one who just got divorced last week..and while she's crying telling us what's happening in the court...I cried with her until the other 2 friends had to console us both..


Seriously..who'll not cry..she told me she's started crying after subuh prayer while getting ready to the court..she hugged the husband..asking him "can i hug you for the last time as your wife?".....and in the court..while the couple before her uttered the divorce, she cried until when it came to her turn, she's sobbing in front of the judge, that she couldnt answered the questions. Finally when the judge asked the reason she told him "I think my husband doesnt love me anymore" when the judge asked if the husband understand the claim from the wife and want to proceed..the husband just agreed...


When the husband finally uttered the divorce..she's sobbing uncontrollably and almost collapsed, the moment they came out from the court..she hugged the husband and apologize for all her wrong doings during their marriage..she said if not concerned about people around her at the court, she didnt want to let go...


Even after years of misery with this man..she still love him dearly..the only reason she asked for separation is to be fair to her husband..she feels it's not fair to force him to be with her while he doesnt love her anymore...


they used to be very loving and clingy..imagine, they had lunch together every single day, when the husband worked in PJ and she's in KL...until the last 2 years..when the love seems to slowly fade away.....



nauzubillah.......

This song is dedicated to the 2 friends whom I love dearly, I sent this song to them...they didnt know the existence of my blog yet, soon I'll let them know..


13 comments:

J.L said...

so sad! bila cinta sudah pudar :(

screamingmommy said...

J.L : yes beb, it's sad esp thinking back how loving he used to be once a time..that's even more hurtful

jane_doe3328 said...

macam tu ajer??? i see it as habis manis sepah dibuang. luckily they dont have kid, or do they?

screamingmommy said...

Jane : they have 4 kids together, beb:(

ERMAYUM said...

i pun sama macam you baca cite ni sedih gak last week tgk adik layan abg lumpuh sedih gak - but i selalu cover cover kalu nangis tgk movie malu wei heheh

i pray that both of your friends be strong and find peace with themselves - hari ni hari they all babe hari kita belum tau - moga2 biarla bercerai mati

Yummy Mummy said...

SM I dah bnyk kali nk tgl msg asyik problem je. Anyway, tumpang sedih baca kisah ni. I wish them kesejahteraan dunia dan akhirat. Just wondering, I guess there must be element of infidelity involved as well?

Nishalim said...

salam, i guess the divorce must have had great impact on you as well..can feel it by reading ur few recent posts..My heart goes out to the two frens of yours. May Allah bless them strength and wisdom in this time of despair and may you be strong for them as well...take care dear..

Nana said...

sedih I baca... me and Mozard almost faced the same situation. I mean dangerously close. But we pulled back. Marriage and love, its hard work. To fall in love is easy, to stay in love .. now THAT's the Challange! You just have to try and try and try harder! Its easy to drift apart. Especially in Malaysia when you're to busy with work and kids and extended family and everything else. Memang susah! We struggled too.

I pray that both of them will find happiness.

jEM said...

Nauzubillah...scary and sedih :-(

can't imagine if in their shoes...nauzubillah

Lady of Leisure said...

i turut simpati dengan yr friend tu.. i cannot imagine macam mana keadaan kalau i di tempat dia.. susah nak lepaskan orang yang kita sayang.. may be sebab tu dia mintak nak hug her husband for the last time as his wife.. :( so sad.. i doakan semoga Allah berikan dia kekuatan..

Jabberholic said...

Tumpang simpati with ur friend..Hope she's strong to face the days ahead..

CiKaYu said...

mmg sedih. sambil baca, i can imagine the situation...nauzubillah, moga-moga ur frens tabah hadapi dugaan ini.

screamingmommy said...

Erma : yes beb, mudah2an ours are not going to be tested this much.

YM : thanks beb:) anyway so far I dont think infidelity involved, I know the husband, very reserved kind of person, somehow he just stopped talking to the wife and refused to address the issue. Even until now the wife (ex) is still clueless

Nishalim : quite affected, both are very close to me, at the same time, i feel scared..knowing that you can never tell what's ur fate when looking at these couples.

Nana : alhamdulillah urs survived, I'm quite surprised to know that beb, u both look as if never went thru that kind of dugaan...but if that kind of dugaan that takes to be happy like yours..it's really worth it..really.

Jem : it's really sad, and nauzubillah dari dugaan macam ni.

Lady: it's tough to let go someone u love..in her case, she told me the love remain strong as before and because of that she doenst want the husband to suffer living with her when the love is not there anymore..sedih amaatt...:(

MsJab : i guess only time will heal the wound, for now she still mourning and i dont know how to console her:(

CikAyu: nauzubillah...it's really tough for her:(

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