Last week I received a devastated news..a friend of mine broke off after being together for 8 years...
My husband knows all of my friends...so years back he used to ask when this couple is getting married..I told him..the guy is continuing his studies..later he asked again..I told him the girl is taking up job offer abroad..later I told him..she's not ready to convert....never ending excuses actually
So finally early this year she came back..we thought they will finally ready to settle down...but my husband gave me his opinion as a man.."I dont think XX is serious..I dont think they will ever get married.." of course I was offended by his comment..this is my dear friend he's talking about..what's so bad about my dear friend that the guy is not going to marry her..
His honest opinion said.."a man if he's serious..they dont wait that long...all the reasons given are just excuses.."
I was concern about my friend..but again I'm so proud of her for having the courage to leave the guy..she said..she regret not doing it sooner..the reality finally hit her..if this guy is serious enough..he should not take this long to propose
But life goes on...until then..